Judaism and Jewish jewelry, all tied in together.

Tu B’Shevat is a pretty cool holiday when you think about it.

Come on, we celebrate the earth, the trees, new fruit, give thanks to the land… How often do we really sit back and say, “Earth– Thanks!”  We can even say it is a time to stop and smell the roses, literally.  Seeing the beauty around us, from the new blossoms on tree branches to the spring rains and longer days.

Many homes have a Tu B’shvat seder, which literally means “order.”  Much like the Pesach seder, there is an order to this event of blessing new fruits.  For example, you should have fruits or nuts with an inedible outer shell and an edible inner core.  This would be an orange, pineapple, pomegranate or an almond.  The other would be a fruit with edible outer flesh and pithy, inedible cores such as an olive, apricot or cherry.  And finally, a fruit which is totally edible like a grape, strawberry or raspberry.

When I taught religious school, we would teach the students that the seder of the fruit is much like the personalities of a person.  Now, bear with me on this one please and follow along.

1.  Some people have a tough outer shell but a soft heart, a generous soul.

2. Some have a soft outer persona, but on the inside are strong.

3.  Some are “you get what you see” and there is no hiding.

I can place myself into one of these categories in a heartbeat, how about you?

And hey, if you want to wear a tough outer shell with an edible inner core I can always offer you a pomegranate necklace to wear!

pomegranate necklace

Pomegranate Necklace

 

 

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Old Friends

1976 Photo Old Friends

Sometimes we have to stop in life and think about what we do have rather than what we don’t. We run, drive, buy, complain, text, email……….and then we get a call from a friend we grew up with that they have breast cancer.

My dear friend, who I lived next to from the age of one, called me a few weeks ago with that terrible phone call you never want to get, cancer.  Now, we haven’t stayed in touch on a regular basis. Some years yes, others no. We have been present at births and birthday parties, and more recently put in better touch through Facebook. But, when you get that call– it is as if you are brought back to childhood, like you never were apart.

I am the first to admit I am not a great shoulder to lean on. I just am not. I would rather hide than tell you how sorry I feel for you, I just stink at that area. I admit it.

Today though, I toughened up and did the mitzvah of bikur holim (visiting the sick). I sat with my old friend, heard her story, saw her pain. And you know what, I was enlightened. I saw strength and power and the will to survive breast cancer. I saw energy as I really haven’t seen it before, and I am positive my friend will overcome this horrible experience in her young life now. I am positive.

To old friends and new, have a mammogram. It just might save a life.

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Cycle of Life

Every life has a cycle.  Judaism for sure has a cycle of life we follow: birth, bris, bat mitzvah……  Ok freeze!  That is where is I am now in life!  My oldest daughter is having her bat mitzvah this weekend. Since Alef Bet Jewelry is a family owned business, we are going to be taking [...]

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Great Quotes about Alef Bet

So, there are some great quotes out there.  I won’t even try to list the famous ones. Then, there are the funny quotes that have to do with the company you own. Currently we are exhibiting at the Union of  Reform Judaism Biennial in Washington DC.  This show takes place every 2 years, so after [...]

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Im Jewish and Im Know It

Ok, sit down and turn up your speakers!  The new LMFAO song is now on You Tube, but it is called Im Jewish and Im Know it.  Hysterical?  Of course.  My kids are watching it and now walking around the house singing, “I’m Jewish and I know it!” I do think it is as ridiculous [...]

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Jerusalem Cricket in my Garage

Cleaning out the garage this holiday weekend we came across an interesting bug.  Caught it, took a picture, then googled it, and it is a Jerusalem cricket.  Wikipedia says they don’t come from Jerusalem, and can be known as potato bugs, but don’t like potatoes.  Hmmm. Ok, so why did this non-Jewish bug come to [...]

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ANTI-AGING JEWELRY?

 It’s no secret that the “anti-aging” market represents the biggest segment of consumer spending today.  No one wants to grow old gracefully, and today men as well as women spend billions and billions of  dollars trying to keep their skin taut and smooth, their hair gloriously abundant, their bodies firm and perky, even as the [...]

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Hamsa Necklace with Diamonds

  The new jewelry trend is setting full cut diamonds in sterling silver.  I know, at first you’re like, “huh?  That  totally cheapens the product!”  Then you take a look at the quality and the think, nice… Then the big whammy comes…. it is priced to sell and to buy.  Affordable. The price of gold is awful, [...]

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Occupy Wall Street + Anti-Semitism

  We’ve been keeping an eye on the discussion of anti-Semitism which swirls on the margins of the “OCCUPY WALL STREET” (OWS) zeitgeist, which now of course is a huge national happening, in cities coast to coast including here in Los Angeles. This movement, which The New York Times recently called “an ad hoc Athenian [...]

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